Hello grief. By now surely, I have become a face familiar to you, as you are to me. I feel loss in all sorts of ways and it becomes an echo in this vessel, and though my mind is inwardly vast as an ocean, I still hear the call of yesterdays. I cannot outpour the sand that heaves into the soles of my feet.
Some days I feel the pain of losing you (and you, and you, and) terribly, whether it was a disease, a disagreement, and many more. It feels like I have turned the blade on myself unknowingly. Why do I fight for everyone’s corner except for me, in the way I embrace everyone’s loves and hobbies, but see hardly a person hear the rhythm of my wordy melancholy. How do I begin to explain that I do not vie for the attention of many, and yet wish I am not too far lost and gone in this hedge of illusory smoke and fog.
It is dreaming of things no longer; it is seeing something up ahead and wishing you were here with me. It is knowing we will continue growing apart even as time has stalled your being entirely. I have gone on so long before you and so I have to after, and what is after but an aspect of trauma for having that which you endeared robbed completely? I was once told that memories are like bullets: packed, deadly, and able to render you helpless. But maybe they are pills, wander in them and you could lose sense of reality.